Unpopular Opinion: “If more black males were emotionally intelligent, more black women would be submissive and fall in line.”
Emotional Intelligence definition:
the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.
My Reasoning:
Due to the lack of male guidance or positive male role models ALOT OF MALES operate out of EMOTION instead of LOGIC. Which not only created an imbalance in the system but also caused a lot of males to lack accountability, and play the blame game which is also an emotion driven deflection. For example when too females argue it’s not about logic 7 out 10 times it’s out of emotion which causes things to escalate quickly. So now imagine that on a scale of man and woman. If we both emotional who being logical in that instance? That’s the males objective honestly to lead you need to to remain the logical one, provide, protect, and make provisions where needed. But how can you do any of those things when you rooted in emotion. If men truly operated as such a woman would have no problem yielding to a man because it’s peace, security and structure in logic but none in chaos and emotion.
1.Not saying men don’t have emotions or can’t speak on how they feel.
2. Not taking a shot a single mothers.
3. Not taking a shot a females who lack accountability.
4. Not talking about promiscuous females.
5. Not talking about dog ass males either.
This was posted by Aundrea
Emotional intelligence improves when one has conducted the necessary introspection of the relationship between the ideas and the conclusions(perceptions) involved at anytime(or from a pattern of communication) when an emotion exceeds a level of balance(homeostasis).
Emotional intelligence is always relevant when conducting commerce. The ability to separate fact from fiction enables discernment at a moment when someone is projecting their presumptions upon you. The recognition of the presumption should enable one to recognize any emotion sensed without letting that emotion distract from the focused objective at hand. The emotional response should support the objective at hand rather than resonate with the emotionally triggered presumption.
EQ is a skill and I support my Brother's post here referring to male exampling and…
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ONE OF LIFE'S MOST IMPORTANT DECISIONS TO MAKE IS THE MATE YOU CHOOSE!
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OK...white cracker John here....(but John does have type "O" blood which is alleged origin is Africa).
So gimmie a chance to show you where I learned about these good questions being raised...fair enough?
The Great School of Natural Science ,GSNS (allegedly the most modern carrier of the ancient beneficial wisdom) I attended for four years. (and passed..lol imagine that!!) anyway they transmit the knowledge , good knowledge of the ages to those who Knock on the door. Lets look at that phrase "knock on the door" ...its found in masonry and in the bible. I didnt know they existed until I quit masonry , pissed off because of their contradictions.
I was the head educator locally and enjoyed taking quote…
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I agree for the most part… however there also other circumstances that also play role in the offset behaviors of men today.